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Your Pet is Lucky to Have You!
It's a great feeling when you get a new pet and heart wrenching if they have a sad story of where they came from. But did you know that even if your pet is "lucky" to be with you now, he/she has actually moved on from the past experience? Many pet owners will treat their pets differently if they feel that a pet has had a "tough life" until the time that they were adopted or taken in. However, in most cases, pets live for each day and do not let their past weigh on the current time. They may have a fear of something that seems irrational because of past experiences, but on the large scheme of things, the pet is just as centered and normal as any other pet. They do not require any extra attention or doting because of their past. Much like humans who have had less than perfect childhoods, the past does not effect every aspect of every day. All pets should be treated with respect and love. But there is no need to feel sorry for your pet every day. In fact, a pet that is overly "babied" can actually become rather aggressive and territorial. If you carry your small dog, cat or bird with you throughout the house and constantly put them up in your lap (or shoulder for a bird), the animal will learn that you are their property and may become aggressive if anyone attempts to move them from their place. This can become a rather large problem if you have small children or a pet that everyone wants to touch. You are doing a disservice to your friends and family by allowing your pet to behave in an aggressive way. A disservice is also being done to your pet who is becoming stressed over things that are unnecessary. All pets love to be loved and deserve it completely. However, keep in mind that they are still pets and that, just like humans, they deserve to not be stressed about simple things. As a pet-parent, you can teach your pet to be friendly while allowing them to enjoy your love and attention.
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